Ok I'm a senior in college and in a few weeks my winter break is starting. There is this girl in high school who I always had a crush on and I had a couple classes with her. We are from the same hometown and I know she will be home around the sametime my break is. We aren't facebook friends but I was wondering if it would be a good idea to send her a facebook message asking if she would like to meet for coffee sometime? I know if we got together we would get along great and who knows maybe something could develop. I never see her though so that's why face to face won't work. Should I add her as a friend first and say something or just ask her out around winter break? Any other ideas or things I should say? Thanks so much!