Should I add my ex on facebook ? we broke up and last year he moved cross country and got engaged after just 6 months to a new girl. said he was madly in love. i was happy for him. and i moved on too. (im a cute happy fun girl and dont stay in the past bemoaning lost loves) anyway i have a guy on facebook i plan to date soon (we already agreed to) when i move in january. im very careful who i ad don to facebook. anyway my ex suddenly contacted me after 4 months and aske dhow am i and long time no talk.... i then emailed him how is he... he wrote back for me to add him onto facebook because he cant find me on there. we were friends while dating but he drifted away and really ddint stay friends like other exes have.... im trying to figure out WHY suddenly he wants me to add him. thoughtS ? ADD him or not ? 1. who adds people thye hate ? thats crazy 2. facebook is anything BUT impersonal major drama 3. when we broke up he ALWAYS kept up flirts about how he missed my hotness and wanted to se enew photos and did I enjoy sex with my new bf after him.